in pursuit
(via themoondust ) I've been watching Sex In The City again and as much as I love Carrie's takes on life and sex, I can't help wondering if women of today really buy into all that stuff. Well I was taking to another Mel the other day and she said something that was so true. You know the BIG questions guys often ask? "What do women want?" Its simple really. They just want to be pursued, to be “wooed and won” to be asked out. Most of us grow up looking at movies that show us how far a man would go for a girl but when it comes to real life we get a bit disappointed cause it doesn't actually happen that way. Speaking to the girls in my life, I realised that many of us have taken on the roles of the guy. In today's society its gutsy for the girl to make the first move, to make the plans, to call the shots. But what are all the guys doing? Well I do admit that most of the guys I know are real gentlemen. They open doors, pull out chairs, offer to carry your stuf